Not just their mechanics. No matter how little or much sex you have, you take the same number of Pill doses, insert the same number of Rings, stick on the same number of Patches, get stuck with the same number of Shots within the same amount of time.
No, NOT just the mechanics, though confusion over that boggles the mind.
The pricing. How do people not understand the pricing of hormonal birth control, and still dare to chime in on this "debate"? (Scare quotes because it's actually a FARCE.)
If my insurance didn't cover my birth control pill, that would be every month of the year I'm spending $92 for birth control, rather than just the first two or three months of the year. (My Rx deductible is $300, so if I'm taking other medication at the time, obviously the deductible is met by February instead of March-and-then-some-in-April.)
$92 x 12 months = $1,104. Voilà. Over $1,000. And my Pill, while not a generic, isn't one of the most expensive ones. It's not Alesse, for instance.
How anyone can not know the above and still have the temerity to contribute their verbal diarrhea to any discussion of birth control is just... I almost want them to keep going because they're digging the anti-woman side's grave so very effectively.
But you know what? All that is beside the point. I wish that the people on "my side," debating right back at the idjits who think I pop three Ortho Tri-Cyclen Lo every time I get busy with the husband, would quit it with the "but PCOS and acne and PMS assistance and dysmenorrhea, oh my!" I honestly wish they would stop.
Most women who use hormonal birth control? Use it as birth control.
Sure, the reason I didn't stick with a generic was that it didn't provide the same off-label benefit of skin clearing up, and I went, as the kids say, cray-cray with PMS symptoms like I'd never had. This is despite every doctor I've ever spoken to swearing up and down that generics are identical. (Most of the pharmacists I've asked and my own experience tell me that those doctors are full of shit.) (Also some other doctors think so, apparently.)
I love me some off-label benefits to my birth control.
I know many women who have taken or now take the Pill because of cysts, anemia, PMDD. I, with my history, know women who take the Pill simply so they get periods, because their BMI's are so low. (This protects your bone mass.)
That's all the beauty of modern medicine, and thank Big Pharma that the Pill can help all those things. It's wonderful.
But talking about birth control: you're doin' it (w)rong if you seem publicly afraid of acknowledging it as what it is. BIRTH. CONTROL.
So as much as the one side needs to Get A Freaking Clue, Like Whoa about the pricing and mechanics of being a sexually active woman in the modern world, I feel so much right now like my own side needs pony up and quit being scared of calling BIRTH CONTROL, not just treatment-of-medical-problems, a good thing.